15 Ways To Know If A Girl Loves You Truly Before She Spoils Your Life

Boys feel perplexed when they are asked to judge a girl. They find it extremely difficult to know whether a girl is into him seriously or she is just playing with them. This is the matter of extreme worry if the boy seriously and madly loves that particular girl.

Here in this article I reveal you 15 ways to know and judge a girl before she ruins your life and play with your feelings. People generally feel girls are very sensitive and boys are the tough going guys. Yes, it's true that boys are tough and strong guys but when it comes to love, they are the most sensitive about their lover.

A girl's behavior and her attitude towards you, reveals the way she feels about you. It also depicts whether she is interested in you or she is just playing with you. Sometimes what happens is, the girl loves you but she cannot express her feelings. This article also helps you to find out the hidden feelings in girl's heart.

If you get the positive answer out of this, it is highly advisable to be loyal to the girl who loves you truly and selflessly but if you find the negative outcome, then I would strongly advise you dump that girl before she spoils you completely.

Here are the 15 ways to judge a girl:

1. Ask her what does she look for into a boy? Is it money, looks, power, status or nature?

Outcome: Her answer will reveal a lot about her nature and thinking. It depicts whether she gives importance to love, looks, character, money or power.

2. Ask her if she likes you?

Outcome: If she says yes casually, then she does not love you rather if she finds it difficult to answer this, then she love you.

3. Ask her what does she respect you for? What does she like about you?

Outcome: If she lists out the things clearly about you, then she really love you. If she takes time to think and say about you, then she's bluffing you.

4. Ask her what does she feel about you?

Outcome: If she is clear what actually she feels about you then you can move ahead with this girl because she is in love with you, if not then leave the topic her itself.

5. Tell her that you will invite her in your marriage, ask her if she would come?

Outcome: If she says no or keep numb, then she is in love with you but if she says yes, 'I would attend your marriage', that means she is not serious about you.

6. Ask her if you can come to her home or at least ask her to introduce you to her parents.

Outcome: If she agrees to introduce you to her parents, then she is serious about you and believes that may be you want to talk to her parents for marriage. If not then it means that she doesn't want you to meet her parents.

7. Talk to her on several topics in a single day. The next day you meet, ask her about something that you have discussed yesterday.

Outcome: If she remembers all or at least a part of what you said yesterday, then she is interested in you.

8. Send her messages regularly for 15 days or call her daily with out missing out a single day. On the 16th day, don't give her message or don't call her.

Outcome: If she is in love with you and is serious about you, then she would surely ask you the reason for not sending her message. If she doesn't even remember that you did not send her the message, then she is not at all bothered about you.

9. Take her frequently for a cup of coffee. Observe her behavior when it comes to paying the bill.

Outcome: If she feels a little embarrassed or uncomfortable that every time you are paying the bill, then she cares for you because she does not like your spending of money needlessly. If she does not feel anything about your paying off the bill, then she does not love about you.

10. Take her for some shopping. Ask her to accompany you in your shopping. Select a beautiful branded shirt for yourself but pretend as if you are not buying the shirt because it's much expensive than your budget.

Outcome: Now, if her love is true for you and she is serious about you, then she would try her level best to gift that to you. That reveals her selfless and in depth love for you.

11. Find out whether she remembers your birthday, wishes you on every possible occasion, does not forget to wish you good morning etc. all these things reveals her love for you.

12. Ask her whether she believes in love marriage or arranged marriage.

Outcome: If she says love marriage, then you have a chance; if she says arranged marriage, then she is not into marriage kind of relationship with you and if she says love marriages that are arranged, then she is giving you a hint to talk to her parents.

13. Gift her a beautiful, romantic or sexy kind of gift like a sari or a pearls necklace.

Outcome: If she feels shy or smiles a little and accepts that gift then she is in love with you. If she asks you 'why have you gifted me pearls, I don't like pearls', then that means she neither value you nor your gift.

14. Talk to her something about your departure. Ask her how would she feel when you would depart from her?

Outcome: If she doesn't say a word or simply stare at you with eyes full of tears but still she is trying to hide her tears, then that means you are everything to her. If she says 'yes, we have to depart one day', then that means she has never ever taken you seriously.

15. When you are with her, say that you are missing your family or friend or any one who is important in your life. Shed little tears in front of her.

Outcome: It is said that if a girl loves a boy, then she cannot see him crying. If she feels bad on seeing your tears and cries for you and consoles you, then she is madly in love with you rather if she tries to console you by saying, 'don't cry, this is what called life. We don't get what we always desire' then she is not serious about you.

Dear friend, know you know whether a girl is in love with you or not. I would genuinely advise you one thing, it's hard to find a true love, if you get someone true loving, don't lose that person. This would be your biggest loss.

Quit Smoking

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9 reasons to be on time

Hi friends ! often we run for our appointments during the day and a lot of them have to do with our professional life – reach office on time, attend meetings on time, meet deadlines etc. Professionalism commands punctuality! Being punctual communicates a lot about our character!

It says that…

• You care. Showing up on time is one of the best ways to show someone that you care about him.
• You respect others. Arriving on time shows that you respect others. Respect is the foundation for creating great long-term relationships.
  
• You are professional. Being on time is fundamental for anyone who wants to be perceived as being the very best.
  
• You are confident. Showing up on time, it's a sign that you are confident to take on whatever might lay before you. Tardiness can imply that you aren't confident, or that you are hesitating to deal with a person or situation.
  
• You are open to others. Punctuality says, "I'm ready" -- to be involved with whatever is set before you. People who aren't ready often show up late or not at all.
  
• You have an edge. Being punctual gives you an edge in business. The early bird truly does get the worm. Timing is everything. Being punctual is great; being early is even better!
  
• You're in control. People choose to do business with those they like, know, and trust. They like doing business with people who are in control. If you always arrive early or on time, you give the impression that you are in control and manage things well.
  
• You have a standard for excellence. Punctuality is but one standard of excellence. It implies that you are in control of your life and shows that you respect yourself and others.
  
• You keep things in flow. Other people are affected by what you do and don't do. If you don't show up or deliver as promised, you adversely affect others. By showing up on time, you allow other people to get things done on time as well. Everybody wins.
  
• Punctuality is a way to make a positive personal impact.
  

So be on time!

Personalized ceramic mugs

Hi Readers,It is good to see myself blog after a hectic day. I had a lot of work and it took me hours and hours to complete my pending work.Yesterday, me and my girl friend met at a restaurant. The last time that we met was two weeks ago. We don't called each other much because she is working and I am also busy.She showed me the very beautiful personalized mugs that she bought recently.I didn't expect that what she showed to me was her gift to me. I was not expecting that day of receiving a surprised gift from her.I was so surprised by her wise idea. It is indeed, an extraordinary gift.Hereafter every time when I see the mug, I will always reminded of her.I would love to keep it forever.I am going to give her ceramic mugs with the post of her picture on its view this coming Valentines day.Advanced Valentines day wishes to you all.

Reasons why people quit jobs in S/W indusrtry

Hi friends,Have a great day ahead.Today i am going to tell 10 reasons why people quit jobs in IT industry

1. Mismatch between the promised job and the situation on hand

Employees are often promised certain things on what exactly the jobs consist of but after joining the company they find out a completely different picture. It becomes painfully clear to the new hire that the company played a bait-and-switch game and now they are trapped in doing something that they don't want to.

2. Limited opportunity for personal growth and skills

"Every ambitious person is looking to further their career in the shortest possible span of time. Hence despite being in a high growth sector if there isn't ample opportunity for reasonably quick vertical or lateral growth; then it is usually time to move on," says Pradeep Thomas Abraham, Managing Director of Paytronic Networks limited. The most successful employers find ways to help employees develop new skills and responsibilities in their current positions.

3. Boss too much to handle

Prashant Hannovar, Manager of Human Resource of NextBiT Computing has had a fair deal of experience in dealing with different kinds of candidates. He says, "Employee leaves the organization because of a manager's leadership style or bad management style. Employee leave because of managers who puts the blame on the other employee, making others a scape goat, a Micro manager-who is known for having no trust/confidence in self and on the team."

4. Lack of recognition of the good work being put-in

Individual accomplishments should be considered by the company and should be pointed out in praise that will help to further increase productivity, make the employee feel appreciated, and create an example for other employees to follow, knowing that they will be rewarded. "Many employees who have quit and answered the exit interviews have revealed on not getting recognized despite of hard work/good Performance," says Hannovar.

5. Management freezes raises and promotions

Money is not always a very important category for people to quit, but it definitely ranks high. Many employees quit the Organization as they get better compensation/salaries with the competitors. Also with the salaries, many of the Techies (engineers) today are offered Onsite opportunity too. This is the normal phenomena in the IT Industry which nothing much can be worked out.

6. Poor work culture/work ethic

Another important factor that results in undesired attrition is the bad work culture. Bad work culture constitutes unhealthy political work environment where you can find lot of rumors/grape wines, partiality, favoritism, lack of trust, lack of good HR best practices like restrictions imposed on the employees on clothing, leaves and many more.

7. Inability to maintain/achieve a healthy work-life balance

In the light of the recent trend of laying off huge number of employees, many employees (who are not fired) feel the heat of too much work. Sometimes they find themselves doing the work of more than two people which often result into work taken home and extended office hours. Too much work often creates stress which can force the employee to quit.



8. Lack of Feedback Mechanisms

Lot of managers don't provide the proper feedback at regular intervals on the employee performance. Many employees look for feedback which helps them to grow in their career. Lack of feedback makes an employee or the team members frustrated, feel out of the team or lost, which leads to the rise in the attrition level in the organization.

9. Lack of decision-making power

A lot of managers simply do not know how to delegate effectively. This results in undue micro management by the immediate superior that shakes the faith and self confidence of the employee. A manager should empower employees and allow them the freedom to make suggestions and to take decisions.

10. No fun or enjoyment in job/ unchallenged

Two scenarios can fit into this. One is when employee becomes dull of the daily routine. Same job, with same skills and everything becomes dull, then it's time for employees to move on. The second scenario can be when employee don't feel challenged with the current job. Employees sometime need more responsibilities and work to challenge their skills or they leave in hunt of another job for fresh challenges.

There are many more reasons which may be valid from person to person but these are the top ten reasons which the IT industry must really look upon to improve on to reduce attrition.Hope this article is useful to all.

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Perfect valentine gift

Hi friends.Hope you all are doing well.There is just one more month to Valentine's Day and do you know, it will be a very special Valentine's Day this year because it falls on the first day of Chinese New Year. Of course, it will be more meaningful if it had fallen on the 15th day of Chinese New Year since that day is known as "Chinese Valentine's Day" but still, it is very rare to have these two special days of Valentine's Day and Chinese New Year celebrated on the same day..

Valentine’s Day is never complete without valentine gifts. To help you in finding valentine gift ideas, you can click Bit.ly. You can find so many great ideas of Valentine’s Day. Valentine gift doesn’t always have to be chocolate. This website shows you how valentine gifts can be really unique too. If you want something more special, perfume is the best option for you. Tinyurl.com is the perfect destination to find perfumes with romantic scents. They will be very suitable for your valentine gifts. But fellows, Valentine is never complete without flowers. You can click the first website to find so many options of beautiful bouquet as valentine gift.

I know that it’s still in the middle of January. But there’s no word too early to prepare your Valentine’s gift. You may not wait until the last day because valentine gift is something that you need to be prepared very well. So, it is the right time to start your searching for the best valentine gift. It is actually not about the gift but it is all about the love you want to share with your special one on this special day.Valentine's Day is still very far. Plan ahead and make your loved ones happy.

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How to bring joy to your work???

Joy at work is not a matter of working in a lavish infrastructure, earning countless dollars and partying out every night. It is rather a practice of being happy with what you are doing and more importantly for whom you are doing.

People working in the biggest companies, earning millions of dollars are not the happiest ones always. Someone working in a local company with much lesser salary can be happier. Do you remember the old days when you passed out from the college and landed up your first job?

The excitement of going to work could be seen bubbling out but as the time passed, things changed. Going to work became an obligation rather than an enjoyment. Do you realise what changed in these few years?

Here are some tips to help you regain that joy in your work:

1. Be realistic

We often have a habit of setting unrealistic goals for ourselves. We expect more than what we are capable of and when we are not able to meet our goals, depression seeps in and the work becomes a source of unhappiness rather than joy.

See, if you also aimed to touch skies overnight. If yes, set S.M.A.R.T goals for yourself. SMART here means: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Timely.



2. Turn to the office with a right mindset

Enter your office with a positive mindset about your work, colleagues and employer.

Bearing negative thoughts about your workplace will not only hamper your performance but will not let you like your work.



3. Maintain a good rapport with everyone at office

This is something said ad-nauseam times but not practiced very often. The best way to do is to maintain an open communication with your boss and colleagues.

Practice small things like helping people wherever you can, pass a gentle smile as you see a colleague and you will see that you will always have some to help or advice you when needed.



4. Try to fix the problems rather than complaining

Most of us have a habit of sitting and criticising things.

Rather than just discussing the problems around it will be a better idea to find a solution to them. This will not only create a healthy work atmosphere but also give you a sense of achievement.



5. Focus on your KPAs

Many of us feel that we are doing a lot of work which is not recognised. This acts as a source of depression at work.

The best way to come out of such a situation is to focus on your Key Performance Areas.

If you do everything but your actual job, your performance will never be appreciated. So, see if you are doing the right things.



6. Maintain transparency

If you are a boss or a senior person at your workplace, try to maintain transparency in the work culture.

Well informed employees are easier to work with and will reduce your worries. Moreover, you will see that they will stand by you in the hour of need.



7. Celebrate success with juniors

Keep patting for the next batting.

Celebrate success with the junior members of your team. If they are happy and motivated, half of your worries will evaporate themselves.

Also, such informal gatherings bring your team members closer and increase the compatibility quotient.



8. Accept new challenges and risks

A common feature of most of the happy professionals around.

This will give you not only the joy of recognition but also a feeling of satisfaction. Identify new challenges and volunteer to handle them.

If you are offered an opportunity to handle any new project which might be totally new for you, accept the challenge and do all that is required to make it successful.



9. Stay away from dirty politics

Dirty office politics will not let you do your actual job affecting your performance, will keep your colleagues away from you and won't let you think constructively.

So, keep away from politics and blame game. If you have committed a mistake, accept it gracefully and learn to correct it.



10. Take a rejuvenating break from work

There will be times when even after practicing all the above mentioned things you will feel exhausted. This is an indication from your body that it needs rest.

So, take a break and rejuvenate yourself for the next inning.

Good Feelings

Good feelings for others are like ointments that heal wounds and re-establish friendships and relationships. Good feelings are generated in the mind, are transmitted through your attitude and are reflected in your eyes and smile. Smiling opens the heart and a glance can make miracles happen.Have a great day……

Best Moments in Life!!!

Hi friends,Hope you all are doing well.Today i am gonna tell you some of the Best Moments in Life:

* To fall in love.

* To laugh until it hurts your stomach.

* To find mails by the thousands when you return from a vacation.

* To go for a vacation to some pretty place.

* To listen to your favorite song in the radio.

* To go to bed and to listen while it rains outside.

* To leave the! shower and find that the towel is warm.

* To clear your last exam.

* To receive a call from someone, you don't see a lot, but you want to.

* To find money in a pant that you haven't used since last year .

* To laugh at yourself looking at mirror, making faces.:)))

* To laugh without a reason.

* To accidentally hear somebody say something good about you.

* To wake up and realize it is still possible to sleep for a couple of hours.

* To hear a song that makes you remember a special person.

* To be part of a team.

* To watch the sunset from the hill top.

* To make new friends.

* To feel butterflies! in the stomach every time that you see that person.

* To pass time with your best friends.

* To see people that you like, feeling happy.

* To use a sweater of the person that you like and find that it still smells of their perfume.

* See an old friend again and to feel that the things have not changed.

* To take an evening walk along the beach.

* To have somebody tell you that he/she loves you.

* To laugh .......laugh........and laugh ...... remembering stupid things done with stupid friends.

These are the best moments of life....

Let us learn to cherish them. Hope you enjoy this.

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Break up Tip

Don't pine over someone you have broken up with.It ended for a reason.If your partner is dumb enough to break up with you in the first place,don't give him/her the time time of the day! Remember , you can love someone , you can miss someone, but you can still be better off without them

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